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My Heart is Melting

I know it is Mother’s Day weekend, but I snapped this picture last night, and my heart melted into a puddle on the floor.

The man I love, holding a precious jewel. There’s just something about daddies and their little girls.

Our baby isn’t a baby anymore. I can’t even pick her up and hold her like this anymore. Well, I can, but then I can’t walk for three days!

Chelsea’s trip to the ER a couple of weeks ago gave me a much-needed jolt out of complacency. I have cherished every moment with her since.

Have a wonderful weekend, friends.

Fluoride-free Toothpaste

A few weeks ago I was thinking about our toothpaste and all the chemicals in it. I have made the switch to plant-based, natural shampoo, conditioner, deodorant, lipstick, and lotion, and I thought I better start looking for a natural toothpaste.

Then my friend Carra wrote two posts (here and here) about natural toothpaste and the dangers of fluoride. I started doing some research on fluoride, and I was shocked! Did you know it is actually poison (some is derived from hazardous industrial waste)? Ever notice how your toothpaste label says to call the Poison Control Center if you swallow some?

I checked my local water system website, and my city fluoridates our water. There’s fluoride in our toothpaste. Our kids’ flossers have fluoride on them. Some bottled water has fluoride in it. And then there’s the fluoride that our dentist paints on my kids’ teeth every six months. Yikes! Fluoride overload! Not good.

Based on my research, evidence does not support the proposed benefits of fluoridated water. It obviously hasn’t helped us much–Caleb has already had four cavities!

I need to do a bit more research, but I am leaning toward using a fluoride-free toothpaste. Carra uses Xyliwhite. If anyone else has any suggestions, please let me know.

Here are some links I found interesting:

http://www.fluoridealert.org/fluoride-facts.htm

http://atlaschiro.com/great_stuff/fluoride_research/

http://www.mercola.com/article/links/fluoride_links.htm

And while I am on the natural topic, I am also researching natural sunblock at www.ewg.org. If anyone has found a natural sunblock that works well (other than long-sleeved shirts and pants), please leave a comment and let me know.

Have a great Thursday!

I Heart Flowers

Our Encore Azaleas bloomed a couple of weeks ago. (Do you like the new blog header?) They bloom a few weeks after regular azaleas, but they bloom three times a year, so it’s a welcome trade-off.

I took a few more pictures of my pansies because they won’t last much longer. Pansies make me happy.

Twin sisters.

My grandmother was a wonderful gardener. I’m sure I inherited my love of flowers from her.

Eating Less Meat

I cook every night because I like to eat real food (food that is free of artificial colors, flavors, additives, and preservatives). The more I learn about the meat industry, the more skeptical I am of meat. I like to know where my meat is coming from, and when you go out to eat you don’t know where that meat came from or what’s in it.

Becoming a vegetarian is not my goal, but I am trying to serve more meatless dinners to my family. Eating less meat will make your grocery budget (and your body) happy.

Right now, we eat 1-2 meatless dinners each week. I’d like to increase that to 2-3 each week. Here’s what my typical meal plan looks like for the week:

  • We eat beef once a week. [edit: Grass-fed beef is better for you. See the comments.]
  • We try to eat fish once a week.
  • Our meatless dinners are either a soup, a pasta dish, or a cheese (and mushroom) pizza.
  • The rest of the week we eat chicken and ground turkey (about once a month we will have pork).

This is one of our new favorite salads. (Sorry for the blurry picture.) The beans and pasta make it hearty enough for a dinner. Sometimes I serve it with rice or couscous and rolls.

Greek Pasta Salad

1 can (15 oz.) cannellini beans (white kidney beans), drained and rinsed
1 small pack of grape tomatoes (about a pint)
2 cups cooked penne pasta
bunch of romaine lettuce (about 9 oz.), shredded
1/2 cup reduced-fat olive oil vinaigrette (or reduced-fat italian dressing)

Adapted from Cooking Light 5 Ingredient 15 Minute Cookbook

One of Those Mommy Moments

This was an unusual week. On Monday, Chelsea was covered in hives, and her right foot started swelling up and turning purple. She was in so much pain she couldn’t walk. And Chelsea is a tough girl, so when she was crying and asking me to take her to the doctor, I knew it was serious. I took her to the emergency room.

While in the ER, her knees started swelling up, and she was not able to straighten her legs. After blood tests and x-rays, the doctor said it was either Fifth Disease or a reaction to the amoxicillin she took for strep throat.

After two visits to Chelsea’s pediatrician on Tuesday, he was almost certain that she has Serum Sickness, which is a bad reaction to penicillin drugs, especially amoxicillin. She is taking steroids to relieve the hives, swelling, and pain.

There were a few moments when I was deeply concerned about Chelsea, but I didn’t freak out. I poured myself into research to make sure Serum Sickness was the right diagnosis. I trusted God would give her doctor wisdom to determine if it was something other than Serum Sickness.

Each day when I prayed, I thanked God for making Chelsea feel better, and I asked Him to heal her completely. I have been unemotional all week, but I had one of those mommy moments today at lunch. When I was praying, the reality of the week settled on me, and I got choked up.

As I watched Chelsea eating her crunchy carrots, I realized how thankful I am that she is here. Even though her situation was not grave, it showed me how fragile life is and how our lives can change in a moment.

God reminded me that my children are not mine. They are His. They are only here for a short time, and He could call them home at any moment. And one day I will stand before God and give an account of how well I cared for and loved His children. Sobering thought.

Thank you, God, for your faithfulness in teaching me how to care for and love your children. I want to live in a way that reflects your character.

Plumb Tuckered Out

This is Chelsea a month ago, before the storm blew in. She rarely takes naps, but she came down with a stomach virus that day.

This week, Chelsea has not been tired at all, even though she has serum sickness. She’s the Energizer bunny. I’m the one who is tuckered out!

Here’s our last few weeks:

March 29–Kevin got strep throat
April 5–Chelsea got chicken pox
April 6–Caleb got chicken pox
April 7–I got strep
April 9–Chelsea got strep
April 18–Chelsea came down with serum sickness (a reaction to amoxicillin, which she took for strep)
April 21–I have what appears to be a sinus infection [edit: good news--it turned out to be only a minor cold for me. yay!]

Lessons in faith, trust, and perseverance are in progress. I’m thankful Kevin and Caleb are well right now, and I look forward to all of us getting back to normal soon.

Chelsea and I listened to Step by Step this morning, a song by Rich Mullins. It reminded me of why I am here.

Oh, God you are my God and I will ever praise You
Oh, God you are my God and I will ever praise You
I will seek You in the morning
And I will learn to walk in Your ways
And step by step You’ll lead me
And I will follow You all of my days

Love, True Love

The Princess and the Three Knights by Karen Kingsbury

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:4, 7

My mom gave this book to Chelsea for Easter, and I was very impressed by it. I have found most books about princesses to be kind of cheesy, but this is a great story, and it provides a good way to introduce your little girl to what true love really looks like.

The book is based on the verses above. In the story, the king stages a competition to find “the one knight with a heart as beautiful as that of his daughter.” I think Kevin and I will have to stage our own competition when Chelsea gets older!

The publisher recommends the book for girls aged 4-7. Chelsea has looked at the pictures, but she won’t let me read it to her because one of the knights on the cover looks a little scary. I think she would really like the book, but I think girls aged 6-7 would understand the true love concept better than the four and five-year-olds. The younger girls would probably be more interested in the horses, castles, and pretty dresses.

No More Chicken Pox Party!

We’ve been talking about it and planning it for days, and today was the day! C, C, and I had a party to celebrate the end of chicken pox and Caleb going back to school! Balloons, confetti, banners (can 8×11 colored sheets count as banners?), and yummo treats (all-natural, of course!).

Good-bye Calamine lotion! So long oatmeal baths! Hello natural immunity–woohoo!!

I’m so proud of my kids for how they handled the chicken pox. They were brave little soldiers, and they didn’t scratch! Chelsea proved beyond any doubt she is as tough as nails. That girl was up for at least two hours every night not able to sleep because of the itchiness, and she never took a nap all week!

Caleb’s case was much milder, but he did have one particularly difficult night. It gave me a good opportunity to talk to him about how God not only wants us to pray for healing but also for strength to handle our illnesses. We talked about how David didn’t whine and cry when he had to face Goliath. He just prayed and asked God for courage and strength.

Pics from today’s party:

Jumping for joy!

We made ice cream cookie pizzas (got the idea from Team Umizoomi).

And ice cream cookie sandwiches.
 

And for Mom, a hot fudge brownie sundae. :-)

Another reason to celebrate: Last night, both kids slept through the night for the first time in a week. Yeah!

I’m so thankful everything went smoothly, especially with Chelsea getting strep. I was a little concerned about her little body being bombarded by two illnesses at the same time.

It’s not easy to go against the flow, to go against social norms. So, I guess I’m just really excited that we succeeded! God truly granted the desires of my heart and answered my prayers. I wanted C and C to get the pox when they were young. It is very rare to find someone who has chicken pox, so it was a huge blessing that God allowed friends of ours to “share” it with us. I’ve heard of people driving hours to meet up with someone who has the pox, and sometimes the kids don’t even catch it. What a blessing that we didn’t have to go searching for it. 

Most people probably think I am C-R-A-Z-Y for what I did, but that’s okay. I still love them. :-) Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. (I think I might have to do a post to explain my vaccination views sometime.) But the bottom line is, I don’t look down on anyone who vaccinates, and I hope people can respect my decision not to vaccinate. It is a very personal decision, one that should not be made without much research, thought, and prayer.

Pox Update

The kids are doing great. It’s almost over! Caleb has just two or three blisters that need to “dry up” before he goes back to school, probably on Wednesday. Chelsea has six or seven stubborn blisters that are taking their sweet time going away. Her blisters were quite a bit larger than his, so I think that’s why hers are taking longer to dry up. She’ll probably be reunited with her friends at school on Thursday.

Poor Chelsea came down with strep throat on Friday, so she got a double whammy. But she has been a real trooper, handling everything very well. They both have been good little patients.

I took this picture of Caleb yesterday:

I know. Chicken pox is not pretty. It looks very painful to me, but Caleb said once they scab over, they don’t hurt unless something hits or rubs them. I was five years old when I had the chicken pox, and I don’t even remember this part. I just remember the beginning when the blisters were so itchy.

p.s. I wanted to add this note to reassure everyone that the kids have been fine. I know the picture looks bad, but it looks worse than it is. Aside from the spots and the itchiness, you wouldn’t even know the kids were sick. We have been doing everything we usually do–games, crafts, playing outside, etc. Caleb has been riding his bike, and we had about five Easter egg hunts in the back yard yesterday! I don’t want you guys to think they have been stuck in bed for the past week.

Caleb and Chelsea had only two days that they slowed down a bit and watched movies. Even on those days, they still played some. When we went to see our chiropractor yesterday, the kids were proudly showing off their spots like they were badges of honor. So no worries people! It’s the chicken pox–not the bubonic plague!

Ultimate Blog Party 2010

Welcome to the party! I’m looking forward to “meeting” lots of new bloggers, and I hope my new friends enjoy this little peek into my world. Glad to see you here too, old friends! Click on the button above, and have fun finding some great new blogs!

I’m an east coast girl. Raised in the North, transplanted in the South.

My blog is part of a 33-year journey in discovering why God put me on Earth and what it means to fulfill the purpose He has given to me.

Here are the kiddos. They are older now (7 and 4), but it’s sweet for me to look back at these toddler/baby years. You’ll see pics of Caleb and Chelsea on here often because I’m doing Project Life this year, and I share most of the daily pictures I take (POTD=Picture of the Day).

Another passion I have is pursuing good health and natural living. I have a little love affair going on right now with organic fruits and veggies and all-natural whole foods. So I post about things that make me healthier, and I also share some yummy recipes.

Most importantly, I am a friend of Jesus. He has rescued me from some desperate places, and I love to share what He has taught me. So you’ll see His name here quite a bit.

Thanks for stopping by! I hope you will visit again soon.

Hey! Before you leave–there are some cool prizes to win at this blog party (and you don’t have to have a blog to win!). Check out the list. Here are my faves:

US67 – DaySpring’s Blessings Unlimited Blessings Blocks – A distressed white-finish frame holds nine colorful blocks with letters and symbols. Value $39.00
Provided by: Sandra Joseph

US22 – A fun Beach themed gift basket filled with an assortment of hair bows and clippies from ribbonrockstar hairbows. (Prize Value: $50)

US6 – Hand Stamped Personalized Necklace valued at $48 The Double Stacked A Lot Of Love.
Provided by: Kristen’s Custom Creations

USC 19 – A free ring of the winners choice.
Provided by: Beadworks by Marcy

Also wouldn’t mind winning US11, US31, US32, or US52

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