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Thursday–Last Day in NYC

Most people leave NYC on Friday, but we had planned to leave a day early to get back to the kiddos a little sooner. On Thursday we stayed back at the hotel to pray for the teams instead of going out to minister. It was a privilege to intercede for our fellow missionaries as they were on the streets sharing the gospel. We prayed all morning and then left the hotel to catch our train after lunch.

As I wrap up my thoughts on NYC, I wanted to share a few things that were said during our worship times at the hotel:

1. Vision and passion come from time in prayer.

2. Don’t go to God with your list and ask Him to bless it. Ask God what His burden is–what He is sorrowful over. Then ask Him to give you the same burden.

3. Even being rejected is good because it sows a seed. Just your presence on the street in NYC is a testimony. You are willing to stand up and tell people about Christ. Lost people will see you and their thoughts might turn to God or religion.

4. When we get to Heaven we will all share our stories of seeds we have sown. We will see how God sent other people to water and grow and harvest those seeds. It’s going to be amazing. If you don’t share the gospel, you won’t have any stories to share in Heaven.

5. Having a burden for the lost is about seeing people as God sees them. It’s not about being focused on working but being focused on seeing as God sees and then acting on that burden.

Wednesday Prayer Station

Okay, I’m back from my long sabbatical. I was working on two scrapbooks and then got busy with birthday parties, Christmas, house guests…well, you understand! :-) I’m determined to finish my posts on NYC before moving on to other subjects.

On Wednesday our team went to Atlantic Avenue. Our cord leader warned us it would be a difficult day because Atlantic Avenue is the location of a Muslim mosque. I was not looking forward to this challenging post. Our leader told us last year some Muslims spat on some of the people from our ministry. I just reasoned that there are far worse things in life than being spat upon, and that helped me move forward.

Fortunately, our team broke up into two groups, and my group moved a little farther away from the mosque. There was one woman on our team who got into a heated discussion with a Muslim, but everything remained under control, and our teammate handled it well.

Overall, it was an okay day for me. Again, it was a very loud and busy intersection, so it was difficult to communicate with people. I prayed with seven people and shared the gospel three times. There were two significant encounters. I talked to two teenage girls. I think they said they were going into the tenth or eleventh grade. They listened to the gospel, but one seemed more interested than the other. When I asked them if they wanted to receive Jesus as their Savior, the one lit up and almost said yes, but she turned to the other girl and asked if she wanted to do it. The other one wasn’t sure. Unfortunately, the one who was interested didn’t continue because her friend wasn’t as interested.

The other memorable encounter was with an unmarried couple. The man was strung out on drugs, but the woman seemed coherent. As the woman talked I could tell they had very little knowledge of Jesus. They seemed like they just wanted a quick fix for all their problems, and they didn’t seem to have the time or mental capacity for a deep conversation. It was a little eerie to look at the man and see his eyes rolling back into his head. When I prayed with them, I held their hands, and the man’s hand was cold and clammy. That was a sad situation. Did I mention we use a lot of hand sanitizer in NYC!?!


That evening Kevin and I went back to Times Square and ate at Bubba Gump’s Shrimp. It’s a restaurant devoted totally to Forrest Gump. I’m not a fan of the movie, but the food was good, and it was interesting reading about how most of the movie was filmed in South Carolina.

After dinner we went to Toys R Us to get souvenirs for the kiddos. That place is a kid’s dream come true! Three stories of toys, and there is even a huge Ferris wheel inside the store that you can ride on. The Lego section was pretty cool too because there were huge Lego structures of the Empire State Building, complete with King Kong, and the Statue of Liberty.


Finally, we went to the Amsterdam Theatre to see the Mary Poppins play. When we were buying our tickets months before our trip, we wanted to see the Lion King, but it was sold out, so we had to choose between Mary Poppins and The Little Mermaid. I left it up to Kevin, and he chose the lesser of two evils in his mind. :-) I always loved watching Mary Poppins on TV growing up, but it is quite a long movie with some very slow parts, so I wasn’t really excited about going to see the play, but this production blew me away. It was 20 times better than the movie–much shorter, some different songs, and the singing and dancing were fantastic. I would go see it again in a heartbeat. The most amazing thing was when Mary flew right over the audience at the end of the show. Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious!

Tuesday Prayer Station

Tuesday was a great day—my best ministering day in NYC. We were at City Hall in Manhattan. I really liked this location because the traffic, noise, and pollution weren’t too bad. We were also in front of a park, so there were trees and some shade. The location was at the foot of the Brooklyn Bridge, so we had a lot of tourists walking by. Tourists don’t usually stop at the prayer stations, but some do. There was a lot of foot traffic, so it was a good location.

I prayed with three people on Tuesday, and I shared the gospel with five people. These numbers are really low, but what made the day so great was that two people that I talked to accepted Christ as their Lord and Savior!

At one point before lunch, Kevin started talking to a young man probably in his twenties. For some reason, Kevin asked me to join him in talking to Corey. After Corey told us a little bit about his struggles, Kevin shared the gospel with him, and Corey said he wanted to accept Christ. He was clearly at a place in his life where he was at the end of his rope. He told us, “I’ve tried everything else in life. Nothing else has worked, so I might as well try this.” I was glad that Kevin asked me to join him in talking to Corey because it encouraged me to keep sharing the gospel.

Right after we prayed with Corey, I talked to a young woman named Justine probably also in her twenties. I asked her what I could pray for, and she said peace for family relationships. After I prayed with her, I asked Justine if she knew for sure she was going to heaven. She said she wasn’t sure. I started to share the gospel with Justine, and she told me that she had heard of these things before. She said she believed in what I was saying. I said to her, “You said you weren’t sure you are going to heaven. Would you like me to tell you how you can know for sure?” She said yes, and I began to share more truth with her. I could tell as I was talking to her that it was as if a light bulb went off in her head. It was finally making sense to her! When I asked her if she wanted to pray to receive God’s gift of eternal life, she said, “Yes!” Even though she was so receptive to the gospel, I had been rejected so many times that I couldn’t believe she actually said yes, so I said, “You do!?!” She smiled and said, “Yes!” I led her in a sinner’s prayer, and she was so happy. It was a very special moment.

Shortly after I talked to Justine, an older woman named Judy approached the prayer station. She had a similar story. She had grown up in a church, but she wasn’t sure if she was going to heaven. After I shared the gospel with her, she said she would like to accept Christ as her Savior. I was honored to pray with Judy and help her secure a home in heaven.

I was so thankful to God for allowing me to lead two people to Christ. Before the mission trip, I kept telling myself that the purpose of the trip is to share the gospel. I didn’t want to focus on how many people would be saved because I didn’t want to be discouraged if I didn’t lead anyone to Christ. I asked God to help me focus on sowing seeds and not to focus on harvesting seed. So I feel like God blessed me abundantly more than I could have imagined because He not only allowed me to pray with people and sow seeds, but He allowed me to join in the harvest.

Fun stuff on Tuesday night:

After ministering, Kevin and I went to Ground Zero. When Kevin had been there a few years ago, it was still just a hole in the ground. Now it is a huge construction site. I’m not sure of all that will be on the site, but I do know that there will be a 9/11 museum at Ground Zero. I didn’t have any particular feelings about Ground Zero as I was looking at the construction site, but as we were walking to Ground Zero, I experienced something that I will never forget. About a block before we got to Ground Zero, we approached a Catholic church. As we turned the corner, and walked a few feet, there stood the huge cross that once stood at Ground Zero. You probably remember seeing pictures of it the day after 9/11. Some of the media showed a huge cross formed from two steel beams that were left standing in the rubble of the Twin Towers. I remember seeing the picture of the cross on TV seven years ago, and at that time, I felt that it was a symbol of God’s presence and care. In the midst of that tragedy, He was still there, comforting us.

Now seven years later, I couldn’t believe the cross was right there in front of me, close enough to touch. It had been moved from Ground Zero, and it is residing at this Catholic church until it can be moved into the 9/11 museum. As I looked at the cross, I sensed God’s presence. I felt the same things I felt when I saw it on TV years ago: God sees us, and He will not abandon His children. I cannot express how blessed I felt to be able to see that cross in person. I didn’t even think that it had been preserved. I am truly thankful to God for allowing me to witness a piece of history that is so profound.

This is the plaque that is attached at the base of the cross.

After Ground Zero, Kevin and I went to a Yankees game! I have always been a fan of the Yankees, but I had never been to a game. When Kevin told me that this was going to be the last season the Yankees would play in the original Yankee Stadium, I said I have to go to a game! They are building a brand new Yankee Stadium right next to the original stadium, but I wanted to experience a game in “The House That Ruth Built” before they tear it down. The game was a lot of fun, and the Yankees beat the Twins!

One blessing at the game was when everyone sang, “God Bless America.” This is something that was started at Yankee Stadium right after 9/11, and they are still doing it seven years later.

Monday Prayer Station

Kevin warned me that I would have good days and bad days, and he was right. Monday was not a good day for me. I only prayed with two people and shared the gospel with three people. We were on Fulton Street again but farther down away from the shops. We were at a busy intersection, and it was very noisy. People were in more of a rush because it was a work day, so that also made it more challenging. We had to be very aggressive in approaching people, and I just wasn’t very aggressive that day.

Beside Satan, I think my worst enemy was my attitude. I let the heat, noise, and hours on my feet get me discouraged. Had I chosen a more positive attitude in the midst of the negative elements, I know I would have had a better day. I learned an important lesson: your attitude can make or break you on a mission trip (or anytime for that matter!).

Sightseeing on Monday night:

We did a lot of walking and saw a lot of cool stuff on Monday night. We took the subway to Grand Central Station, which was cool. It looked like it was completely marble–very pretty. Then we got back on the subway and went to Times Square.

We walked several blocks and found the famous Carnegie Deli, which first opened in 1937. Kevin had been there once but only had the cheesecake. He wanted to go back to have one of their deli sandwiches. You definitely go there for the experience and not the atmosphere. It is a hole in the wall! People were packed in there, and it looked like not much had changed since 1937. There was an air conditioner above us that was dripping water on me!

We both got basic deli sandwiches. I had no idea how basic “basic” was! It was literally two pieces of bread with a huge slab of meat–for $14 each mind you! And they didn’t even have mayo on them! I honestly think our waitress could have been one of the original waitresses. She had to be in her seventies.

I’m sure they have really good food there, but we didn’t do our homework, so we had no idea what to order. The cheesecake redeemed the meal though. I forget the name, but it was a combo of chocolate mousse and cheesecake. Delicious.

After the deli, we walked to Central Park and walked along the bottom edge of it. It was starting to get dark, so we didn’t go in, but what we did see was pretty. Then we walked down 5th Avenue. Beside all the famous stores, I was surprised by three beautiful stone cathedrals on 5th Avenue. They were amazing. Next we went inside Trump Tower and saw Radio City Music Hall. On our way back to the subway we saw Rockefeller Center, FAO Schwartz, and all the big news studios.

Sunday Prayer Station

Sunday was our first day of ministering, and it was a shortened day to help people ease into the schedule. We were only out from about 10 a.m. until 2 p.m.

As you can imagine, I was nervous that first day. We set up our prayer station just a few blocks from our hotel, which was nice because we didn’t have to take the subway. We were on Fulton Mall, which is a street with all sorts of stores. I liked the location because the traffic wasn’t too loud, and the people were just leisurely shopping and more willing to stop and talk.

I only approached women. I didn’t feel comfortable approaching men. Only a couple men came up to me, and they were harmless. Early in the day, I approached one woman and asked her if I could pray with her. She said her kids were with their father, and he had taken them to a water fun park for the day. She was worried about them. I prayed for her, and tears started streaming down her face. I had a sense that God really used me to minister to her. She said she knew she shouldn’t worry, and she believed God put me in her path to help her not worry about her kids.

I prayed with eight people that day, and I shared the gospel with six people. I wasn’t feeling very encouraged about the day as a whole. It was difficult for me to be aggressive in approaching people, and none of the people were very receptive to the gospel. Then, at the end of the day, a woman approached me. She asked what we were doing. I told her we were praying for people, and I asked if she had anything she would like me to pray about. She said, “Where do I start!?!” Ann began telling me about the trials in her life, and she said she didn’t know where to turn. She said, “I think I need to have faith in God.” Wow! She was practically begging for the gospel! I started sharing the gospel with her, and at one point, she asked me if I was a Christian. I said yes, and she said, “Are you born again? I’m not a religious person. I don’t know anything about religion.” I told her I was born again, and I continued to share God’s truth with her. (There are so many people in our own country who have never heard about God!)

She was having a hard time understanding some of the concepts of the gospel, but yet she was so hungry for God. After talking to her for about 15 minutes, my team started packing up to go back to the hotel, but I didn’t want to stop talking to her! I told her that I needed to go, and I got a Bible for her just as the team was walking away. Kevin stayed back with me, and I prayed with Ann. I could have talked to her all afternoon, and I wish that I had. She was so close to being saved. I knew without a doubt that was a divine appointment set up by God. I was so excited, I think I could have floated back to the hotel!

Being a rookie, I thought when the team packed up, it was time to go, but Kevin and I could have stayed there longer. I wish I had known that! I also forgot to get Ann’s contact information. I thought we were only supposed to get info from those who actually accepted Christ. I was kicking myself for not getting her address and phone number! The enemy started messing with me and discouraging me about not getting her contact info, but I just keep praying for Ann, and I know that God will send other believers in her path to water and harvest those seeds I planted.

After I talked to Ann, I felt like I had fulfilled my purpose in NYC. Ann needed someone to direct her to God, and God put me there on the street to talk to her and share the truth. I really don’t know of anything more exciting than to be used by God for His purposes on earth and to make an eternal difference in someone’s life.

Typical Ministry Day in NYC

8:00-9:15 a.m. Praise and worship in the hotel ballroom. We sing a few songs and then have a special speaker, testimonies, and announcements.

9:15 a.m. Meet with your cord group (about 12 people), and get any necessary items from your room before heading out.

10:00 a.m. Walk/subway to your prayer station site.

10:30 a.m. Set up the prayer station and start sowing seed.

12:00-1:00 p.m. Break for lunch (A few people go at a time in shifts, so the prayer station stays open all the time.)

4:00 p.m. Pack up the prayer station and go back to the hotel.

4:30-11:00 p.m. Free time to explore the city. Fun!

Fun Stuff in NYC

There’s so much fun stuff to do in NYC! When we arrived on Saturday, we walked down Montague Street (by our hotel in Brooklyn) and ate at a pizza place called Monty’s. There are lots of neat shops and restaurants on Montague. After dinner we walked down a couple blocks to the promenade. This is a park that overlooks lower Manhattan, the Brooklyn Bridge, and Ellis Island. You can even see the Statue of Liberty in the distance. I forgot to bring my camera, so I didn’t get any pics. We went back on Wednesday, but it was foggy and rainy that day, so my pictures are not good!




On Sunday, we went to Little Italy after the Brooklyn Tabernacle service. I loved Little Italy! They block off the street from 6-9, and it’s one big happy street party! Very festive, friendly, relaxed atmosphere. We ate at a great little Italian restaurant and then just enjoyed all the shops and vendors in the street. We topped off the evening with gelato, took the subway to the Brooklyn Bridge, and walked over the bridge to get back to our hotel. The bridge is about 3/4 of a mile long, and it was built in the 1800′s. The views from the bridge were very cool as well as the bridge’s architecture.

The Brooklyn Tabernacle

If you ever go to NYC, you must go to the Brooklyn Tabernacle. Kevin and I had the privilege of going to the tabernacle on Sunday, the day after we arrived in NYC. That experience was worth every single penny we paid to go to NYC, and if that was the only thing we could have done in NYC beside witnessing, it would have been enough.

The first praise song we sang was “I Am a Friend of God.” I have never been in a church where the people sing with all their heart like that. It was incredible. And the clapping! There was none of this half-hearted, nonchalant clapping. Every person was clapping to the beat, and I imagine the sound of singing and clapping could be heard blocks away! It was so uplifting.

Then there was a special group that came and did a concert. They were good, but I couldn’t wait to hear the famous tabernacle choir! And of course, when they sang, it was wonderful. They were only supposed to sing two songs, but Pastor Cymbala asked his wife to lead the choir in two more songs, so it was an extra blessing.

The service started at 3:30. After the concert and choir songs, it was already about 5:15. I thought there wouldn’t be much time for Pastor Cymbala to give a message. When he started to speak, he said he would keep his message brief, and he said he was going to tell us the five most important words Jesus ever said. “You must be born again.” Pastor Cymbala briefly told the story of Nicodemus and Jesus, and then he went on to share what it means to be born again. He also shared what it doesn’t mean. Pastor Cymbala had only been talking for about five or six minutes, but every word he said was profound. As he was talking, two young black men–teenagers I think–came down and stood in front of the stage off to the side. Pastor Cymbala saw them, walked over to them, and said, “Why did you come down here? Do you want to be born again?” Both of them nodded their heads. Then Pastor Cymbala said, “Well, I guess it is time to give the invitation.”

After Pastor Cymbala gave the invitation, many people went forward. It was amazing. The entire space in front of the stage was filled with people. It looked like at least 50 people went forward. After he led them in a sinner’s prayer, he explained to them what baptism was, and he said they must be baptized. Then he went on to encourage them to get connected to the church and get involved in Bible study. Last, he told them not to leave before someone got all their contact information. What an incredible experience. I believe God’s hand is on that church. I have read books by Pastor Cymbala and his wife, and I have heard of the ways that God has moved in and through that church, but to be able to experience it in person was truly amazing. How thankful I am to God for allowing me to witness it.

My Beautiful New York

It’s ironic that my first mission trip was to my home state! God definitely has a sense of humor. I really couldn’t have asked for a better experience. Kevin and I took an Amtrak train down to the city from my parents’ house. It was my first time on a train, and I really enjoyed the two-hour trip. Train trips beat plane trips any day–okay maybe just short train trips. I can’t imagine being on a train for an entire day, but I’d much rather take a 2-hour train trip than a 2-hour plane trip. Trains are much more spacious, and you don’t have to deal with turbulence!

The best part of the train trip was looking out the window and soaking up all of New York’s beauty. The entire route was along the banks of the beautiful Hudson River, with its lush greenery and hills. I saw deer and even a huge fish jumping out of the water. There were many people boating and jet-skiing. When most people think of NY, they think the whole state is like NYC. Whenever I meet people who have traveled to NY, they always remark on how surprisingly beautiful it is. Most people can’t believe NY actually has countryside!

The trip was a blessing but also bittersweet because I miss NY. It is my home, and it always will be. I loved growing up in NY. But sadly, the town where I grew up is now declining. A place that once thrived is slowly becoming run-down. My parents hope to move close to us when my dad retires, and I look forward to that day, but it will also be difficult because I won’t be able to go back to my childhood home. My grandparents’ home will also be sold soon, so when I go back to visit NY in the future, I will only be able to drive by the land and look at it. These are some of the thoughts I had during the train ride, thoughts that brought tears to my eyes.

When I moved away from NY 11 years ago, I didn’t travel back for about a year. I remember so vividly that first trip back to visit my parents. I was struck by how beautiful my hometown was. I never realized it when I was growing up. I guess when that is all you know, you take it for granted. I am thankful for my time away from NY, because now I truly appreciate what I had and what I always will have in my heart.

Up until this mission trip, my opinion of NYC was completely different than my opinion of upstate NY. I always viewed NYC as a big bad dangerous place where crime is rampant and people are excessively profane. As I said in class, I was convinced that I was going to be stabbed, shot, or destroyed by terrorists! I have always pictured in my mind masses of people on the sidewalk pushing and shoving to make their way.

When I was doing my training for the mission trip, Debbie (a member of our church) said, “They really are warm people who want to talk to you.” I had a hard time reconciling that statement with my stereotype of NYC people. When she said that, tears came to my eyes. God was starting to soften my heart toward my fellow New Yorkers.

I am so glad to report that my original opinion of NYC was completely wrong. I was pleasantly surprised that most of the people were warm, engaging, and considerate. Most people made eye contact with me and were kind when I approached them at a prayer station and asked them how they were doing. People were not purposely shoving or bumping into each other on the crowded streets and subways, and I very often heard people saying “excuse me” and “sorry” if they accidentally brushed up against someone. In fact, I had only one person speak to me rudely during the entire trip.

There are great needs in NYC, especially spiritual needs. You don’t see a church on every corner like you do here. God truly opened my eyes and changed my heart toward New Yorkers. They are people just like you and me. They just happen to live in a bigger city. I never thought of NYC as a family place, but I cannot tell you how many moms I saw pushing strollers. I literally saw hundreds of babies and kids. That surprised me. I guess I always thought the only thing that I had in common with the people of NYC was that I once lived in NY. Now, after living in their city for a week, I see that they are people who work, play, and love their kids just like us. I have a much better understanding of my fellow New Yorkers, and my bond to them makes me love New York (and NYC) even more.

My Journey to NYC

Kevin’s first mission trip to NYC was in July of 2004. Caleb was 17 months old. Ever since Kevin’s first trip, he has wanted me to join him. In 2005 I was pregnant with Chelsea. In 2006 Chelsea was still nursing. In 2007 Chelsea was 19 months old. Every time Kevin asked me to go to NYC I just kept saying, “The kids are too young. I don’t want to leave them when they are so young.” After Kevin returned from NYC in 2007 he felt that I should be able to go in 2008 because Chelsea would be 2 1/2, and Caleb would be five. All of a sudden, my “kids are too young” excuse was gone. I just kept telling him I would pray about it.

Deep down, I had this fear that if I went on a mission trip, I might die and my kids would be left without a mother. The fear absolutely terrified me. The thought of what my kids would have to endure losing their mother paralyzed me. In my pride, I felt that no one in the whole world could raise my kids as well as I can!

Time kept ticking away, and the deadline for registration for NYC was approaching. People kept asking me if I was going, and I just kept telling them I was praying about it, but I really didn’t want to go! Then one day April was sitting in front of me at church. When the service was over, she turned around and asked me if I was going to NYC. I gave her my customary answer. She said, “Let me tell you about what happened to me last year on the trip.” She told me about how a man threatened her life at a prayer station, and she was ready to take the next plane out of NYC. She went back to the hotel and prayed with some people, and she decided to stay. The next day she led three people to the Lord. When she told me the story, I just broke down and cried! She said, “Had I left NYC when I was afraid, those three people wouldn’t be going to heaven.” I knew that God was speaking to me through April. He was trying to get me to face my fears.

I composed myself, and we walked down to the nursery to get our kids. She continued to talk to me about her experience, and I told her a little bit about my fears. When we got to the bottom of the stairs, she said, “You will miss your kids. I missed my kids, but the homecoming was so much sweeter knowing that those three people will be in heaven because I left my kids.” Again, I burst out in tears!

When I got home from church, I talked to Kevin and told him everything April said. I told him, “I’m so afraid I am going to die!” He tried to reassure me that I would be safe. Then he said, “If you do die, do you really think that you are the only person who can do a good job raising Caleb and Chelsea?” When I thought about it, I realized I was saying that God is not able to take care of them. I finally got what God was trying to teach me. God is more than able to provide people to care for my kids. And really, it is silly to think that I can protect or prolong my life by not going on a mission trip. I could die tomorrow on my way to the grocery story or falling down the stairs in my own house!

So from that day on I decided that I would go on the trip, but I still wasn’t very enthusiastic about it. It wasn’t until I actually sent in my registration that God gave me a peace about it. After I registered, I had a feeling that I did the right thing, and I was actually looking forward to the trip!

About a month before the trip to NYC, Kristen shared a testimony from Billy Graham’s wife Ruth. She had to leave her young children for an entire month because Billy wanted her to be with him on a crusade overseas. A friend wrote to Ruth and encouraged her that God takes care of our children much better than we ever could! I was so touched by Ruth’s testimony, and it was confirmation from God that I was doing the right thing.


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