Archive for April, 2010

One of Those Mommy Moments

This was an unusual week. On Monday, Chelsea was covered in hives, and her right foot started swelling up and turning purple. She was in so much pain she couldn’t walk. And Chelsea is a tough girl, so when she was crying and asking me to take her to the doctor, I knew it was serious. I took her to the emergency room.

While in the ER, her knees started swelling up, and she was not able to straighten her legs. After blood tests and x-rays, the doctor said it was either Fifth Disease or a reaction to the amoxicillin she took for strep throat.

After two visits to Chelsea’s pediatrician on Tuesday, he was almost certain that she has Serum Sickness, which is a bad reaction to penicillin drugs, especially amoxicillin. She is taking steroids to relieve the hives, swelling, and pain.

There were a few moments when I was deeply concerned about Chelsea, but I didn’t freak out. I poured myself into research to make sure Serum Sickness was the right diagnosis. I trusted God would give her doctor wisdom to determine if it was something other than Serum Sickness.

Each day when I prayed, I thanked God for making Chelsea feel better, and I asked Him to heal her completely. I have been unemotional all week, but I had one of those mommy moments today at lunch. When I was praying, the reality of the week settled on me, and I got choked up.

As I watched Chelsea eating her crunchy carrots, I realized how thankful I am that she is here. Even though her situation was not grave, it showed me how fragile life is and how our lives can change in a moment.

God reminded me that my children are not mine. They are His. They are only here for a short time, and He could call them home at any moment. And one day I will stand before God and give an account of how well I cared for and loved His children. Sobering thought.

Thank you, God, for your faithfulness in teaching me how to care for and love your children. I want to live in a way that reflects your character.

Plumb Tuckered Out

This is Chelsea a month ago, before the storm blew in. She rarely takes naps, but she came down with a stomach virus that day.

This week, Chelsea has not been tired at all, even though she has serum sickness. She’s the Energizer bunny. I’m the one who is tuckered out!

Here’s our last few weeks:

March 29–Kevin got strep throat
April 5–Chelsea got chicken pox
April 6–Caleb got chicken pox
April 7–I got strep
April 9–Chelsea got strep
April 18–Chelsea came down with serum sickness (a reaction to amoxicillin, which she took for strep)
April 21–I have what appears to be a sinus infection [edit: good news--it turned out to be only a minor cold for me. yay!]

Lessons in faith, trust, and perseverance are in progress. I’m thankful Kevin and Caleb are well right now, and I look forward to all of us getting back to normal soon.

Chelsea and I listened to Step by Step this morning, a song by Rich Mullins. It reminded me of why I am here.

Oh, God you are my God and I will ever praise You
Oh, God you are my God and I will ever praise You
I will seek You in the morning
And I will learn to walk in Your ways
And step by step You’ll lead me
And I will follow You all of my days

Love, True Love

The Princess and the Three Knights by Karen Kingsbury

“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It always protects, always trust, always hopes, always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:4, 7

My mom gave this book to Chelsea for Easter, and I was very impressed by it. I have found most books about princesses to be kind of cheesy, but this is a great story, and it provides a good way to introduce your little girl to what true love really looks like.

The book is based on the verses above. In the story, the king stages a competition to find “the one knight with a heart as beautiful as that of his daughter.” I think Kevin and I will have to stage our own competition when Chelsea gets older!

The publisher recommends the book for girls aged 4-7. Chelsea has looked at the pictures, but she won’t let me read it to her because one of the knights on the cover looks a little scary. I think she would really like the book, but I think girls aged 6-7 would understand the true love concept better than the four and five-year-olds. The younger girls would probably be more interested in the horses, castles, and pretty dresses.

No More Chicken Pox Party!

We’ve been talking about it and planning it for days, and today was the day! C, C, and I had a party to celebrate the end of chicken pox and Caleb going back to school! Balloons, confetti, banners (can 8×11 colored sheets count as banners?), and yummo treats (all-natural, of course!).

Good-bye Calamine lotion! So long oatmeal baths! Hello natural immunity–woohoo!!

I’m so proud of my kids for how they handled the chicken pox. They were brave little soldiers, and they didn’t scratch! Chelsea proved beyond any doubt she is as tough as nails. That girl was up for at least two hours every night not able to sleep because of the itchiness, and she never took a nap all week!

Caleb’s case was much milder, but he did have one particularly difficult night. It gave me a good opportunity to talk to him about how God not only wants us to pray for healing but also for strength to handle our illnesses. We talked about how David didn’t whine and cry when he had to face Goliath. He just prayed and asked God for courage and strength.

Pics from today’s party:

Jumping for joy!

We made ice cream cookie pizzas (got the idea from Team Umizoomi).

And ice cream cookie sandwiches.
 

And for Mom, a hot fudge brownie sundae. :-)

Another reason to celebrate: Last night, both kids slept through the night for the first time in a week. Yeah!

I’m so thankful everything went smoothly, especially with Chelsea getting strep. I was a little concerned about her little body being bombarded by two illnesses at the same time.

It’s not easy to go against the flow, to go against social norms. So, I guess I’m just really excited that we succeeded! God truly granted the desires of my heart and answered my prayers. I wanted C and C to get the pox when they were young. It is very rare to find someone who has chicken pox, so it was a huge blessing that God allowed friends of ours to “share” it with us. I’ve heard of people driving hours to meet up with someone who has the pox, and sometimes the kids don’t even catch it. What a blessing that we didn’t have to go searching for it. 

Most people probably think I am C-R-A-Z-Y for what I did, but that’s okay. I still love them. :-) Everyone is entitled to their own opinion. (I think I might have to do a post to explain my vaccination views sometime.) But the bottom line is, I don’t look down on anyone who vaccinates, and I hope people can respect my decision not to vaccinate. It is a very personal decision, one that should not be made without much research, thought, and prayer.

Pox Update

The kids are doing great. It’s almost over! Caleb has just two or three blisters that need to “dry up” before he goes back to school, probably on Wednesday. Chelsea has six or seven stubborn blisters that are taking their sweet time going away. Her blisters were quite a bit larger than his, so I think that’s why hers are taking longer to dry up. She’ll probably be reunited with her friends at school on Thursday.

Poor Chelsea came down with strep throat on Friday, so she got a double whammy. But she has been a real trooper, handling everything very well. They both have been good little patients.

I took this picture of Caleb yesterday:

I know. Chicken pox is not pretty. It looks very painful to me, but Caleb said once they scab over, they don’t hurt unless something hits or rubs them. I was five years old when I had the chicken pox, and I don’t even remember this part. I just remember the beginning when the blisters were so itchy.

p.s. I wanted to add this note to reassure everyone that the kids have been fine. I know the picture looks bad, but it looks worse than it is. Aside from the spots and the itchiness, you wouldn’t even know the kids were sick. We have been doing everything we usually do–games, crafts, playing outside, etc. Caleb has been riding his bike, and we had about five Easter egg hunts in the back yard yesterday! I don’t want you guys to think they have been stuck in bed for the past week.

Caleb and Chelsea had only two days that they slowed down a bit and watched movies. Even on those days, they still played some. When we went to see our chiropractor yesterday, the kids were proudly showing off their spots like they were badges of honor. So no worries people! It’s the chicken pox–not the bubonic plague!

Ultimate Blog Party 2010

Welcome to the party! I’m looking forward to “meeting” lots of new bloggers, and I hope my new friends enjoy this little peek into my world. Glad to see you here too, old friends! Click on the button above, and have fun finding some great new blogs!

I’m an east coast girl. Raised in the North, transplanted in the South.

My blog is part of a 33-year journey in discovering why God put me on Earth and what it means to fulfill the purpose He has given to me.

Here are the kiddos. They are older now (7 and 4), but it’s sweet for me to look back at these toddler/baby years. You’ll see pics of Caleb and Chelsea on here often because I’m doing Project Life this year, and I share most of the daily pictures I take (POTD=Picture of the Day).

Another passion I have is pursuing good health and natural living. I have a little love affair going on right now with organic fruits and veggies and all-natural whole foods. So I post about things that make me healthier, and I also share some yummy recipes.

Most importantly, I am a friend of Jesus. He has rescued me from some desperate places, and I love to share what He has taught me. So you’ll see His name here quite a bit.

Thanks for stopping by! I hope you will visit again soon.

Hey! Before you leave–there are some cool prizes to win at this blog party (and you don’t have to have a blog to win!). Check out the list. Here are my faves:

US67 – DaySpring’s Blessings Unlimited Blessings Blocks – A distressed white-finish frame holds nine colorful blocks with letters and symbols. Value $39.00
Provided by: Sandra Joseph

US22 – A fun Beach themed gift basket filled with an assortment of hair bows and clippies from ribbonrockstar hairbows. (Prize Value: $50)

US6 – Hand Stamped Personalized Necklace valued at $48 The Double Stacked A Lot Of Love.
Provided by: Kristen’s Custom Creations

USC 19 – A free ring of the winners choice.
Provided by: Beadworks by Marcy

Also wouldn’t mind winning US11, US31, US32, or US52

Another One Gone

Caleb lost another tooth yesterday, his fourth. Again, I was thankful I didn’t have to pull it. I was on the couch taking a nap, and Caleb woke me up, holding his little tooth. Then he gave me the play-by-play: he pushed it all the way forward until it was horizontal, twisted it around, and repeated that process until it fell out. Nice. Glad I missed that.

I love being the tooth fairy, even though he knows it’s me. I think I like it because it is so easy to tuck a little surprise under his pillow without waking him up.

Pox Kids

Caleb said, “You’re not going to put these on Facebook, are you?” But he didn’t say anything about my blog.

Caleb has a mild case. He has several tiny blisters on his trunk. Poor Chelsea is covered with large blisters from head to toe. Caleb has been a little tired, but he hasn’t had any other symptoms. Chelsea has been very itchy, and she has had some trouble sleeping at night. Other than that, she is feeling fine.

I think Caleb has a mild case because he was exposed to the virus when he was twelve months old. I had the shingles, and he was nursing. He had a fever the entire week I was sick, so I think he has already built up some immunity to the pox.

Prelude to Pain

I am working on a series of posts about lessons learned from my chiropractic journey. I originally intended on writing three posts, but it looks like there’s going to be four. This is number two. Click here for number one.

This post probably should have been the first in the series, but oh well. This is how it’s gonna go down. I thought I should give you some background on why I started chiropractic.

Meet my spine. Curvy little thing, isn’t it? This is the scoliosis I have had since high school. It looks worse on the actual x-ray, but it’s not severe enough to require surgery. Notice in the picture how the red line veers to the right at the top of my spine? My neck is skewed to the right by over an inch. My chiropractor said most people’s necks are off by 3 or 4 mms. Mine is off by 28 mms.

This picture was taken in 2009, about a week after I started my spinal therapy. I was standing as straight as I could. This gives you a good idea of how funky my neck is. And do you see how there is no space between my left arm and my body, but there is space between my right arm and my body? That shows the curve of my spine.

In high school, my doctor said I didn’t need to do anything about the scoliosis–no surgery, no brace, no therapy, nothing. So I didn’t. I didn’t have any pain, except for occasional lower back pain (2-3 weeks per year). I knew my shoulders and hips were off, but I never really noticed my neck being off so much. Maybe that happened after high school. I don’t remember my doctor doing an x-ray, so I don’t think I grasped the full extent of the problem.

Fast forward to 2002. I was first introduced to chiropractic by my midwife when I was pregnant with Caleb. She said chiropractic helped many of her clients with general health and comfort, so I decided to try it. Dr. B could not x-ray me, but he did a thermal scan on my spine. He never mentioned the scoliosis–probably didn’t bother because there wasn’t much he could do about it while I was pregnant. Dr. B adjusted my left hip, my neck, and a few places on my spine during each visit. I had some minor soreness but no pain.

Dr. B explained how all organs are controlled by nerves, and those nerves flow through the spine. Each vertebra is linked to certain organs. That made sense to me, but I didn’t make the connection between general health and chiropractic. I still had the idea that chiropractic was only useful for certain situations like pregnancy or back pain due to trauma or sports injuries.

I had a neutral feeling about the experience. It did not harm me in any way, but I did not experience any dramatic changes to my health. I didn’t understand the potential benefits to me because I only went for a couple of months.

Fast forward to 2009. The kids and I went to two amusement parks while in NY. After I got off the Scrambler and a roller coaster, I knew something was messed up in my neck. It wasn’t painful. My neck just felt stiff, and there were a couple of places in my back that felt “off.” Other than having trouble sleeping, it wasn’t too bad, but it got to the point that I knew I had to do something about it.

I had been thinking about going back to chiropractic for several months because a good friend kept talking to me about how her whole family’s health had improved since starting chiropractic. I made an appointment, they took x-rays, and I figured I would just get a “quick fix” for the stiffness in my neck and be good to go, but what I discovered totally floored me.

The assistant put me in a room by myself with my x-ray hanging on the wall, illuminated, and I stared at it while I waited for the doctor. I was utterly shocked and frightened. I had no idea my spine was so distorted. In that moment, I had a deep sense that I was not healthy. Even though I had felt very healthy for the past few years, I knew my spine was not healthy, and if my spine was not healthy, my body could not be truly healthy.

My doctor later confirmed my intuition. He explained one of the biggest misconceptions we have about health is that if we feel good, then we are healthy. Nothing could be further from the truth. We’ve all heard of or know someone who was feeling great one day and then dropped dead from a heart attack the next. You can’t feel your arteries hardening. You can’t feel cancer growing in your body. Just because you are pain-free and symptom-free does not mean you are healthy.

My doctor also explained how the brain communicates to the rest of the body through the nerves in the spinal cord. When your spine is out of alignment, the nerve flow of communication is interrupted, and it can cause muscles and organs to malfunction, which can cause disease and other health problems. It was starting to make sense to me–the connection between spinal health and overall health.

In addition to the scoliosis, my x-ray showed three degenerated discs, two fused vertebrae, and a few other postural problems. I won’t explain each of these but will just say, they’re not good. I realized I had a long road of therapy ahead of me, but I didn’t realize the benefits and challenges that were waiting for me on the journey.

The good news is that the stiffness in my neck, which caused me to make the appointment, was relieved within the first week of treatment. Also within the first week, my allergies and asthma were 98% gone. (I used to take Claritin every single day of the year. I have only had to take it about 7 times in the last 8 months.) For years I had suffered from severe cramping during my monthly cycle. Within the first month of chiropractic, the cramps were completely gone, and they have not returned (can you say, oh happy day?). The other benefits I have experienced are improved posture, more flexibility, and increased range of motion.

But there have also been some bumps along the road. More on that in the next post…

Resurrection Day

“Why do you look for the living among the dead? He is not here; he has risen! Remember how he told you, while he was still with you in Galilee: The Son of Man must be delivered into the hands of sinful men, be crucified and on the third day be raised again.” Luke 24:5-7

If you are a believer, this is my prayer for you on this Resurrection Day:

“…that you may know him better….that you may know the hope to which he has called you…and his incomparably great power for us who believe. That power is like the working of his mighty strength, which he exerted in Christ when he raised him from the dead and seated him at his right hand in the heavenly realms…” Ephesians 1:17-20

The same power that raised Jesus from the dead resides in you! You have the power to overcome any obstacle you face. You have the power to break any chain that binds you. You have the power to dispel any fear that imprisons you. You have the power to say no to any temptation that entices you. There is nothing that God cannot do in and through you!

If you are not a friend of Jesus, my prayer for you this day is that you will be still and know that He is God. May you follow Him when He whispers your name.

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